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Death in the family today

April 30th, 2008 at 01:00 am

My aunt died this afternoon. She has been critically ill for a few weeks and on a ventilator in ICU for the past 2 weeks. There had been no sign of improvement and her condition started to deteriorate so the family made the decision to take her off the vent.

The funeral is Friday morning in Florida (I'm in NJ). I just finished making all the arrangements for my mother and I to fly down Thursday night. Unfortunately, we will need to fly back Friday evening because we have a Bar Mitzvah to attend Saturday morning here in NJ. So it will be a crazy few days running back and forth but I was always close to my aunt and her family. Her daughter and I are age peers and grew up spending a lot of time together. They lived a block away from me growing up so we were always over each other's homes.

Just another reason to keep an emergency fund.

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18 Responses to “Death in the family today”

  1. sagegirl Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 01:14 am 1209518059
    1209518059

    Steve--so sorry to hear that. I will be thinking of you and your mother (and your aunt). I hope you all find peace.

  2. frugaltexan75 Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 01:57 am 1209520668
    1209520668

    I'm sorry for your loss. It is good to have the comfort of not having to worry about how to pay your way to say your goodbyes.

  3. mom-sense Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 02:07 am 1209521252
    1209521252


    Sorry on the loss of your aunt.

  4. Nic Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 02:40 am 1209523200
    1209523200

    I'm so sorry for your loss Steve.

  5. baselle Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 02:59 am 1209524356
    1209524356

    My condolences, Disneysteve.

  6. Amber Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 03:07 am 1209524836
    1209524836

    I am so sorry to hear that Disney, please accept my condolences...I will keep you and your family in my prayers

  7. paulettegoddard Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 03:38 am 1209526738
    1209526738

    May I extend condolences on the loss of your close aunt.

  8. Thrifty Ray Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 03:49 am 1209527395
    1209527395

    I am sorry for you and your mom and your cousin...and the rest of the family. If this is your moms sister, I am sure she is dealing with much grief too..I hope you all find peace in your memories...which it sounds like you have many!

  9. debtfreeme Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 05:37 am 1209533837
    1209533837

    I'm so sorry to that. I hope you have good memories of your time with her and her family.

  10. Broken Arrow Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 05:47 am 1209534452
    1209534452

    I'm sorry to hear that.

  11. campfrugal Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 11:33 am 1209555190
    1209555190

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  12. merch Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 11:55 am 1209556532
    1209556532

    My condolences

  13. Ima saver Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 12:47 pm 1209559664
    1209559664

    So sorry to hear of your loss, Steve.

  14. nance Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 01:31 pm 1209562263
    1209562263

    Condolences to you and your family.

  15. disneysteve Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 02:12 pm 1209564749
    1209564749

    Thanks everyone. By the way, the aunt who died was my father's sister, not my mother's, but she and my mother were very close and have known each other for about 60 years. As I said, they lived a block away from us so we did many things together, holidays, vacations, etc.

  16. miclason Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 02:44 pm 1209566658
    1209566658

    Sorry to hear about your Aunt.
    You are right: another advantage of having an EF!

  17. pretty cheap jewelry Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 03:53 pm 1209570832
    1209570832

    Another condolence here. I have some very elderly relatives and have already planned for the future expenses well in advance. Maybe you had much less time to foresee the circumstances. Have a safe trip, and rejoice in the young person's future.

  18. NJDebbie Says:
    April 30th, 2008 at 11:11 pm 1209597067
    1209597067

    I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

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