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Major health update on DW and Ebay update

May 21st, 2022 at 12:50 am

I haven't blogged for a few weeks with good reason. My wife ended up in the hospital on 4/23 and was there for 19 days. To keep it short, she developed a serious infection in and around her spine and related fluid in her left lung. She had major surgery on her back to clean it out and rebuild and stabilize her spine. She had a total of 3 procedures, 1 minor, 1 intermediate, and finally 1 more extensive to fix the lung issue. Spent 4 days in ICU post-op. Got 3 transfusions. Came home last week with a PICC line and IV antibiotics for a few more weeks.

As you can imagine, it was a major ordeal for all of us. On top of that whole mess, my mom got admitted during that same period for mild heart failure. Same hospital fortunately, so I was constantly going back and forth between their rooms. DW came home on Wednesday. Mom came home on Thursday. So I've been busy coordinating their home care needs since.

Anyway, both are now recovering and doing okay. Both have a visiting nurse and physical therapy at home. In a couple more weeks, DW will likly start outpatient PT for her back rehab.

Incidentally, as of now, the billing for DW's hospitalization stands at around $730,000. Insurance has already taken care of most of that but there is still some stuff that hasn't settled. It's only been a week, though, so I'm hopeful that the remainder will work its way through the system and get paid as well. We may end up owing something but we're hoping it won't be a major amount.

I put my ebay sales on vacation mode for a week when DW was first admitted. Once it became clear that she would be there quite a while, I restarted sales but only listed an item here and there so I was making and shipping sales but wasn't doing much to keep it going until after she got home. There just weren't enough hours in the day.

For the 2nd quarter so far, I have done $1,042.36 in sales and $679.42 in profit. That brings my YTD numbers to $2,657.35 in sales and $1,795.94 in profit. Considering my goal back in January was to average $200/month profit, I certainly can't complain as I'm actually averaging $359/month even with pausing for a few weeks with my wife's illness.

I haven't gotten an official end date for my part time contract at work so I'm still assuming it will be August 6. That means I've got 31 shifts left to work before I change to per diem. With the latest COVID surge hitting full force, I can't wait to cut back to 4-hour shifts. My site saw 69 patients yesterday which is a lot for us. I'm hoping this wave dies down quickly but right now there's no sign of that happening so we're all working our butts off again thanks to elimination of mask mandates and so many people just not caring anymore.

14 Responses to “Major health update on DW and Ebay update”

  1. My English Castle Says:
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    As I said in the forums, Steve, I'm so sorry to hear this. What a thing for you and your family to deal with. Glad to hear your wife is on the mend. She's lucky to have a doctor in the house!

  2. disneysteve Says:
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    "She's lucky to have a doctor in the house!"

    Thanks. This is far more true than most realize. Being with her (and my mom) in the hospital daily made a huge difference in the care they received sadly. Several times, I caught a potential issue before it happened but the average person would not have. Something as simple as the nurse about to give my mom a dose of medicine that she had just gotten in the ER before she got sent up to the room. Or noticing that the respiratory therapist had neglected to reconnect my wife's oxygen after doing her breathing treatment so she was wearing the nasal canula but there was no oxygen flowing through it.

    If you aren't able to fully advocate for yourself or have someone present who can advocate for you, hospitals can be really dangerous places. There is far too much going on and too many people involved in your care. There just isn't great continuity or communication between all parties. Fortunately, I was able to be the "project manager" overseeing all of the parties involved.

  3. crazyliblady Says:
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    I am so sorry about all this illness in your family. I hope that your wife and mom fell better very soon. Best wishes to all of you!

  4. Wink Says:
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    Wishing your DW and Mom a full recovery! That is certainly a LOT to manage. Take care of yourself too Steve!

  5. rob62521 Says:
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    I agree, your DW is lucky to have a doctor in the house. Sorry she and your mom had these issues, but both are blessed to have a knowledgeable health advocate. Hope they both continue to improve!

  6. Amber Says:
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    Aw DS I’m so glad to hear both your wife and mom are recovering, I’m sorry to hear both went through this, praying for a healthy recovery .

  7. Amber Says:
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    I just read your comment about advocating for yourself. When my dad was in the hospital I gave my neice full authorization to make decisions and question the staff. She’s a nurse and sadly, and yet I’m thankful like you she was able catch things before they happened.

    Glad you were there

  8. Dido Says:
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    So sorry to hear about all you've been dealing with, and speedy healing to both DW and your mom!

  9. terri77 Says:
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    I’m sorry that your wife & mom (and you) had to go through that. Thankfully they are back home & recovering. It is so true about having an advocate for your care. I used to not understand why someone had to sit with a patient in a hospital until I did it myself for my grandparents. They don’t always understand what’s going on. You have to be their voice. And recently with my mom I find that she doesn’t want to share all her “personal details” with doctors, but they can’t treat what she won’t verbalize. So I have to speak up.

  10. CB in the City Says:
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    I am so sorry that you are having to deal with so much right now. It is good news that both your wife and your mom are on the mend. What you say about hospital errors is scary. I hope to avoid hospitals as much as possible.

  11. latestart Says:
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    I wish for continued healing for your wife and mother. G

  12. GoodLiving Says:
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    Sending you and your family all the best healing care. I hope you are getting a bit of a break too.

  13. mumof2 Says:
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    Sorry to hear that I hope they both have a speedy recovery....hope the insurance money covers a major part of it I can't even fathom that amount!!

    Glad that you were there to see the staffs mistakes and were able to have them corrected

  14. LivingAlmostLarge Says:
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    thoughts and prayers for your wife and mom.

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